You make good points, but you make it seem as if women all looked 'aged' in their 30s, 40s. This is not always the case, especially not in a time where many if us have practiced preventive aging routines, healthy diets, exercise, etc for years. Women can stay looking younger for longer now, and we are living much longer too. I know we will all eventually age but you are not realistic when you include women in their 30s as being aged. If you saw how many single women in cities are amongst younger ones, you often can't tell the age difference. It also depends on lifestyle, since there are women late 20s with crows feet, bad skin, or smokers lines, vs early mid 30 women who may look younger because they didn't smoke and didn't tan. Aging signs are largely environmental

You make good points, but you make it seem as if women all looked 'aged' in their 30s, 40s. This is not always the case, especially not in a time where many if us have practiced preventive aging routines, healthy diets, exercise, etc for years. Women can stay looking younger for longer now, and we are living much longer too. I know we will all eventually age but you are not realistic when you include women in their 30s as being aged. If you saw how many single women in cities are amongst younger ones, you often can't tell the age difference. It also depends on lifestyle, since there are women late 20s with crows feet, bad skin, or smokers lines, vs early mid 30 women who may look younger because they didn't smoke and didn't tan. Aging signs are largely environmental

However, most women are not aware how bad sun damage can age them since the damage takes a while to be seen. Now also let also take into account of how americans have a tendency to indulge in high bad fat/sugar/too much cal and no exersice diet, which leads 60 percent of the population to be overweight and most of the weight is added when aging progresses.

First off theres no way its 5 to 1 or even 3 to 1 so I call shenanigans on that.

Secondly even if you were to create a hypothetical UNIVERSE (bound by all of the same laws as this one is) but only with a 5 female to 1 male ratio....ugly guys would STILL get nothing and I will explain why.

Girls would rather simply be single than date an ugly guy. So if all the good looking and average guys were single...they would simply stay single.

See....ALL females have value in the dating game....to men having a 400lb girl is better than having nothing at all....ergo why morbidly obese women have no problem getting guys.

Now men....not all men have value...in fact....some men have negative value. In other words if a guy is ugly he is seen as WORSE than having nothing....therefore his value is less than 0.

In laymen's terms....with a fat ugly girl...its like 20 bucks.....its not a lot of money...but its better than nothing.

With ugly GUYS...its like being 100,000 in debt (and having no money)....its better to have nothing than to have debt.

LMAO
I feel for you, since you seem to really have had very bad luck with women. I know you won't believe me, but I can tell you that I know ugly, much more unattractive -than you claim to be, since I actually think you are ok looking with great lips- and have decent looking women, and not all obese women.

An old study, but I think the science is still valid:

http://www.news.cornell.edu/releases/April97/marriage.obesity.ssl.html

I completely agree, I really don't think a person who is ultra obsessed with their looks will like to be 80.


So then what are the folks on this board who are "ultra obsessed" about their looks going to do at 80--is there going to be a mass suicide of MissJ's posters LOL LOL - and for those of you that don't wish to be 80 - there is a solution - and an original one IMHO - and this is it: starting around 55 not to take too great care of your health - so hopefully you will have some disease that you weren't aware of and so didn't have the time to cure and if you are lucky you will pass on to the Great Unknown before you get to be 80 - I say this tongue in cheek because I do think people who try everything to live a healthy LONG life are quite disappointed when they actually get that old - I worked in an old age home when I was 19 and a lot of my "wisdom" I acquired when I worked there (I'm sure I have mentioned this before because it has informed my life decisions to a great extent) The first thing I noticed was that the prettier the old woman/man, (though there were more older women than men) the more miserable s/he was - that is easy to understand with loss of beauty extra - but even the ones that were happy regretted not dying when they were in their 70's - this came as a surprise to me as I thought everyone wanted to live to be old ...one of the women told me that she had seen enough of life and wanted to go home - (by home she meant death) she was 78 - this woman had lived a happy healthy life, had lots of hobbies and her children came to visit her - she was intelligent, well read and generally a cheerful woman - and yet she did not particularly wish to live to be in her 80's and regretted taking care of herself so well - she told me that old aged sucked - inspite of good health, money, love etc....




I do think a person can reasonably (with the right procedures combined with self care over yrs) can look 10-20 yrs younger, but aiming beyond that can look strange. Unless they come up with the antiaging super pill in the next few yrs, which I doubt. lol
But what I meant about women living longer is that they also now have a different perspective on life. Just think in the early 1900s, life expectancy was only up to late 40s, 50ish. So naturally people behaved a certain way by 30, and were considered old.
Now women at 50ish can expect to live at least 30 yrs+ (as long as she's healthy, and no accidents). So it's not like our grandmother's generation. Now many women are divorced at 45,50 (which is another reason I never thought marrying young is always ideal) and start working out maybe, get some p.s. if they can, and many do start looking younger and acting younger too.Not like immature teens, but just a more lively attitude toward life. I have a coworker 55, who swing dances with her boyfriend, 42, and they both look about the same age. She has alot of energy and tells me her generation is not like her mom's, and she's having alot of fun and not feeling old at all.